Christmas … I Believe -- Santa or Not
The topic of Santa Claus is controversial in conservative
evangelicalism and this blog entry is not a diatribe on the perils teaching the
belief in a now dead and canonized individual who gains access to houses by the
ways of household chimneys. Personally,
I find it a little creepy. Since I have
neither a true fireplace nor a chimney, he won’t be paying me a visit. Each of
my parents grew up with opposing views. As far as I know, my dad grew up with
some knowledge of the Santa figure, although he was fairly logical and
perceptive about life and not given to much fantasy about jolly men in red
suits and flying reindeer. I think he
knew the source of his gifts. On the
other hand, my mom was one of ten during years of the Great Depression. My grandparents never mentioned Santa,
because they did not want to explain why the jolly man in the red suit left
bigger and cooler presents for kids on the hill on the hill while they got very
little. Mom and her siblings often got the little furniture set repainted and
maybe some candy with some miscellaneous items … yeah they were that poor, but
they did not know it. They were happy
and loved each other.
By the time I came along, my parents made some conscious choices
about Santa. Yes, I would sit on the lap of the Department store Santa and
share my Christmas list. I played the
game well, but I knew it was it just a game. Mom and Dad had decided that Santa
had no place in our home; Christmas would be more about Jesus than stuff. We
still had our tree, our gifts, and the stockings, but I knew it was Jesus we
celebrated. My parents told the story (I
do not remember doing or saying this) of the time when I was a preschooler observing
our city’s Christmas parade. Our mayor
approached me and asked, “Little girl, what’s Santa, going to bring you for
Christmas?” My response was “Nothing.” Apparently, he was about to go into meltdown
before my blue eyes locked with his and I said something like “Santa doesn’t
bring it, Jesus does” He walked away satisfied.
My parents' only reasoning in the Santa factor was ... if we tell her there's a Santa and she's finds he fake, will she think Jesus is just a nice story too? Some people think that's a weak argument, but I knew from day one that the man in the red suit (inside the Sears building) was pure fantasy and that Jesus in the manger (on top the Sears building) was absolute fact. It was cool to have that understanding. Not every kid was that blessed.
The Santa issue always brought a sense of guilt though. I
always felt like I was sinning when I watched Rudolph or any of the Santa
Christmas specials. My mistake was in never asking; I just assumed and saw a
frowning God. I have realized in recent years sometimes a well-intentioned
conviction can become a legalistic force for no good reason. Santa is a part of fun and pretending of
Christmas. To some degree, he embodies
the magical selflessness of the season. Let’s not thrown the baby out with
bathwater, to use a tired cliché. Saint
Nicholas may be dead, but Santa lives in the magic of Christmas as we live out
the selflessness of the season. Do not allow Santa to replace the Savior, but be
balanced in your approach to the season. Celebrate with joy!
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